Youth Ministry’s Greatest HitPosted: October 28, 2014
I didn’t attend church growing up. So I often retrace my faith journey to remind myself how I got here. As a teenager I was blessed to have friends invite me to a thriving youth ministry. And looking back it had all the right stuff: quality teaching on the Christian faith, emphasis on community service and justice, youth leadership, great music, funny skits, laugh out loud games, engaging trips, and even healthy small groups. Wow! No wonder it was successful.
But oddly enough, I don’t think any of that is why the ministry impacted me. I’m convinced that the reason this ministry was transformative for me and so many others was that we developed relationships with healthy, authentic, and faithful adults that cared about us right where we were. I can still remember the welcome I received first time I attended. It was a quick exchange with the adult leader, but the look in his eyes told me all I needed to know. I was loved and welcomed with no strings attached.
Over time I developed friendships with other adults in the ministry, and I soon began to notice something about them. They had love, joy, and peace in their lives in a way that I didn’t. And they seemed to be saying it was because of their Christian faith. It didn’t take me long to figure out that I wanted what they had. I wanted to love God and love others the way they did. I wanted to be alive with joy and purpose as they were. I still do. I’m still trying to be like Cheryl, Mike, Joe, Bruce, Steve, and Glen.
I think Youth Ministry’s “greatest hit” is when healthy, faithful adults build relationships with young people. For me that is the most vital component. And if it exists, any youth ministry can be transformative, no matter the size of the group, or the programming/curricula involved.